The Lie We Won't Bow To: For the Non - Compliant
- Kaya Hankar

- Jun 9
- 3 min read

There's a moment when you stop asking when things will get better and start asking why they never seem to.
You've been doing the work. Showing up. Healing your trauma, raising your consciousness, sending love and light to a world that seems determined to tear itself apart. You've meditated, journaled, gone to therapy, attended workshops, read the books, followed the teachers.
And the world has gotten worse, not better.
Instead of anyone acknowledging that maybe something fundamental is broken, they tell you to vibrate higher. Work on yourself more. Clear another layer. Find another healer.
You're not cynical for noticing this pattern. You're awake.
The Spiritual Marketplace
Here's what happened to the genuine spiritual work you thought you were part of:
It got turned into a business model.
The teachers who once transmitted real wisdom now have subscription platforms and courses that always lead to more courses. The healers who used to guide people to their own power now keep clients coming back indefinitely. The influencers package your trauma into content that gets monetized while your actual healing somehow never quite arrives.
Your seeking has been turned into their revenue stream.
They don't need to be consciously malicious. They just need to benefit from keeping you in perpetual student mode - always one workshop, one healing session, one level of consciousness away from the wholeness you're looking for.
It's not a cosmic conspiracy. It's just capitalism wearing spiritual robes.
The Inversion
They've taken everything authentic about spiritual growth and flipped it:
Your natural desire to help becomes compulsive caretaking that drains you empty. Your righteous anger at injustice becomes spiritual bypassing that silences your voice. Your knowing that something is fundamentally wrong becomes endless self-improvement projects focused on fixing yourself instead of questioning the system.
Every genuine spiritual capacity you have gets redirected into channels that serve everyone except you.
And when you notice you're exhausted, depleted, and no closer to the peace you're seeking? They tell you that's resistance. That's your ego. That's proof you need more healing.
For Those Who Are Done
If you're reading this and something in you is saying "finally, someone said it" - you know what you are.
You're not broken for being tired of the performance. You're not unspiritual for questioning why enlightenment has a price tag. You're not selfish for wanting your energy back.
You're one of the ones who can tell the difference between genuine transformation and spiritual entertainment. Between real healing and expensive maintenance programs.
And you're walking away. Not because you've given up on truth, but because you've stopped confusing the marketplace with the actual work.
What The Real Work Actually Is
The real work was never about fixing yourself anyway.
It was about remembering what you actually are underneath all the stories about what you lack, what you need to heal, what you need to learn.
It was about trusting your own discernment over everyone else's expert opinion.
It was about recognizing that most of your problems weren't personal failures - they were natural responses to living in systems designed to keep you small, grateful, and consuming.
The real work is simple: Stop giving your power away to people who profit from your seeking.
The Choice
You don't need more healing. You need to stop being convinced you're broken.
You don't need higher vibrations. You need to trust what you already know.
You don't need to save the world. You need to stop participating in systems that drain your life force while promising you enlightenment.
This isn't about becoming bitter or giving up on growth. It's about becoming discerning enough to tell the difference between what serves your actual evolution and what serves someone else's business model.
For What It's Worth
Maybe things won't get better. Maybe this isn't the lifetime where everything gets fixed and humanity wakes up and we all live happily ever after.
But maybe that was never the point.
Maybe the point was always to stop looking outside yourself for permission to be whole. To stop waiting for the world to change before you claim your own authority. To stop giving your power away to systems that were never designed to give it back.
Maybe the point was just to remember what you are and refuse to pretend otherwise.
And if that's selfish, unspiritual, or not positive enough for the people selling you solutions to problems they helped create?
Good.
You're not here to make their business model work.
You're here to be free.



